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Shop Talk / Re: Need some advice
« Last post by Pervarotti on June 13, 2017, 05:44:46 pm »
I complained to Adam quite a bit.   He kept saying STOP and making excuses. 

Sent the friend a text

"Adam should not have drove last night.  He will be de-barred if he gets a DUI."

His reply
"Yea I know.  We both got drunk.  Wasn't thinking"     - dude has a DUI he knew damn well what they were doing, and worse he posted pictures of lined up shot glasses around 1 am on facebook.

then a few minutes later he texts again

"Sorry.   We're idiots last night"



I think our friend got the message.   


The bigger issue is that Adam doesn't seem to have any remorse about lying to me.   And last night when we went out he refused to drink anything at all because he kept saying he didn't want to get a DUI.   Fun times.   Another dinner of silence.   

We used to have fun together. 
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Shop Talk / Re: Need some advice
« Last post by Captain Caveman on June 13, 2017, 03:56:35 pm »
Adam and this guy is putting not only their lives at risk, but the other folks on the road as well AND your husband's career and you're worried about making this guy mad??

When he texts again, tell him you and Adam are taking Uber and suggest he do the same because you all will not be driving when you go out.

Tell Adam if he is going to drink and drive to take out additional life insurance. You want to be a wealthy widow.
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Shop Talk / Re: Need some advice
« Last post by Gooey on June 12, 2017, 05:54:17 pm »
This is the bigger problem, "We already talked about it and he agreed not to last night, then did it anyway."

Seems like lying to you and putting his buddies before you is Adam's priority.
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Shop Talk / Re: WTF is COVFEFE and why do people keep bringing it up?
« Last post by Silver Mercenary on June 12, 2017, 05:32:37 pm »
I got 99 problems, but cat piss aint one
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Shop Talk / Re: Need some advice
« Last post by Silver Mercenary on June 12, 2017, 05:29:09 pm »
yup, u dont need to say shit to the guy. next time he needs a ride, just say "I'll just call you an uber or taxi"..tell Adam to do the same..eventually he'll get the hint

reinforcement schedule - do not reward his behavior
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Shop Talk / Re: Need some advice
« Last post by laker on June 12, 2017, 04:07:26 pm »
Just don't pick him up once or twice. Ignore the txt and apologize half heartedly the next day. He'll get the point.   Ass cash or grass no one rides for free
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Shop Talk / Re: Need some advice
« Last post by MUFDVR on June 12, 2017, 03:38:33 pm »
Yeah, it's on Adam.  I wouldn't say shit to that guy until the next time he asks you for a ride.  Adam needs to step up and join the team for the big win.   
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Shop Talk / Re: Need some advice
« Last post by Pervarotti on June 12, 2017, 01:48:58 pm »
Maybe the next time Adam wants to fuck,

I should tell him to go fuck that guy since he has more pull with Adam than I do.

I'm pissed at the guy, but really this is on Adam.   He made a stupid decision.

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Shop Talk / Re: Need some advice
« Last post by Pervarotti on June 12, 2017, 01:43:34 pm »
Adam keeps saying its no big deal and he always used to drive his friends around.

I totally grilled him about it this morning.   We already talked about it and he agreed not to last night, then did it anyway.

You think its okay for me to poke my nose in and text this guy that it's not fair that he is putting Adam at risk?  I think he will hate me if I say anything. After all Adam should have said no.
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Shop Talk / Re: Need some advice
« Last post by MUFDVR on June 12, 2017, 01:24:20 pm »
This is easy. Tell him to use Uber and stop being a mooch.  With Uber, there is no excuse for anyone to be driving drunk.  It's as if the whole business model was designed around getting drunken fucktards from A to B.   I don't drive anywhere anymore.

Put your foot down.  Adam needs to back you up and do the same.  If he doesn't, call him a pussy after you call him fat and his mom a whore.

Wait until the next time he asks for a ride and tell him. I wouldn't do it until then. 
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